patterns

I was just thinking about how many different ways people find to be sexual. Even just amung my close friends there's a huge variety of what people do with who (with whom). Some of them kiss lots of people but go no further, some date like its their job, a few are really good at picking up strangers from bars. None of that seems to be me. I was thinking about it and I realized that I can count the guys I've kissed since I got to college on one hand. And all of them I had been friends with for anywhere from 3 months to 7 years. Well except for one, but freshman year doesn't count. That pattern has worked pretty well for me so far, but i guess that's not how everyone does it. I might have to learn new ways.